A 70-year-old man married a 22-year-old woman out of love.

The saying “age is just a number” often comes to mind in discussions of unconventional marriages, particularly when a significant age gap exists between partners. While society tends to scrutinise such unions, they sometimes spark debate about love, consent, and societal norms. One such marriage in Pakistan has recently captured widespread attention, raising both curiosity and controversy.

This week, news emerged that 70-year-old Hakim Babar Zia has married a 22-year-old woman in Rawalpindi’s Chaklala area, instantly becoming a topic of intense discussion across media outlets and social networks. The considerable age difference—almost one and a half generations—has left many debating the social implications, while others have defended the couple’s choice.

Babar Zia, speaking to the media at his residence, explained the nature of the union. “Our marriage is both a familial and a love-based arrangement. We initially liked each other, then my wife reciprocated those feelings, and finally we formalised it through nikah,” he said.

Addressing the criticism surrounding the age gap, he added, “Age is merely a number. What matters most is the spirit and heart of the person. My wife is a divorcee, and our union aligns with the teachings of Allah and the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). I see no wrongdoing in following that path.”

Babar Zia further defended his actions against negative commentary, stating, “I have not engaged in any immoral activity. Many of those who criticise us are in relationships outside of marriage or maintain girlfriends without formalising their unions. We have done nothing wrong but entered into a lawful marriage.”

The bride, sharing her perspective, echoed similar sentiments. “When true love exists, age should never be an obstacle. Love should be honoured with marriage, and there is no reason to delay that step,” she said. The couple has also revealed plans to perform Umrah after Eid al-Fitr and intend to travel to the Netherlands thereafter.

Public reaction has been divided. Some social media users express concern over the substantial age difference, while others support the couple, viewing it as a challenge to societal hypocrisy and an endorsement of lawful, consensual love.

For clarity, the couple’s age difference and related details are summarised below:

The story highlights a broader discussion on societal perceptions of age in relationships and underscores the couple’s commitment to their beliefs and love, regardless of public opinion.